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August 25, 2016

Ask an Angel: August 25, 2016

My dad fights us when we suggest he take a bath. He has memory issues, but it doing pretty good in many areas of his life. His hygiene, however, is a problem and is getting embarrassing. How can I get him to shower?

Ask an Angel: August 11, 2016

I have noticed that my father has been accumulating a lot of “stuff” in his house. I was not concerned about it, but at my last visit to his home, I was somewhat alarmed as I saw the house in disarray. How do I encourage him to get rid of the clutter?

Ask an Angel: July 28, 2016

My once vibrant husband has been showing increased signs of memory loss. I am heartbroken, and sometimes feel guilty because my patience wears thin, especially when he repeats the same questions. How can I deal with the repetitive behavior calmly?

Ask an Angel: July 14, 2016

I really need to stay fit! I see all types of classes in my community, but quite frankly I am a little self-conscious about trying them out. I have good intentions, but never make it to the class. How can I get motivated enough to attend one?

Ask an Angel: June 30, 2016

I seem to be overwhelmed with worry, especially in today’s world. There is so much going on! How do I fight these feelings of worry? I don’t think I’m alone on this!

Ask an Angel: June 16, 2016

During a recent visit with mom, I was alarmed to find weeks’ old food in the fridge. I am afraid she can get sick from these foods if she isn’t aware of the danger that exists. How can I help her realize she has to throw old food away?

Ask an Angel: June 2, 2016

I have to admit I have been questioning my driving ability. While I can’t fathom the thought of giving it up totally, I’ve made some steps to limit my driving. I don’t drive at night, for example.

Ask an Angel: May 19, 2016

I am the sole caregiver for my mother and I live out of state. She lives alone and her care needs have been minimal until recently. Do you have any suggestions on caring for someone long-distance?

Ask an Angel: May 5, 2016

My husband and I need to put a power of attorney in place. What are some important considerations to know about as we do this?

Ask an Angel: April 21, 2016

I am my mother’s caregiver and up until recently things have been going well. She has dementia. Recently, I have been unable to sleep through the night because she gets up and wanders throughout the house.

Ask an Angel: April 7, 2016

I have been the primary caregiver for my mother for the past five years. She recently passed away and I am feeling overwhelmed with grief, but also feel lost as a person.

Ask an Angel: March 24, 2016

Help. Since my mother passed away, I’ve noticed my father has been drinking. When I confront him, he denies it, but it is obvious. I know he is grieving, but this is troubling. I’m not sure how to approach this.

Ask an Angel: February 25, 2016

My mother started having anxiety and had to be hospitalized for this. She is 82 and I have noticed she is not “herself” since the anxiety surfaced in her life.

Ask an Angel: February 11, 2016

My father’s diet is absolutely horrible, and it includes mostly carbs as well as sweets. I saw a change in his weight after my mother died where he has actually gained weight, and I wonder how I can get him back on track.

Ask an Angel: January 28, 2016

My four siblings and I had a family meeting over the holidays to discuss the needs of our parents. We agreed to hire a caregiver to assist them in their home. Excellent referrals came from friends and we thought we were on our way to reduce our worry and stress regarding their care.

Ask an Angel: January 14, 2016

I have relocated to the area and I am searching for a new doctor. I was very comfortable with my former doctor, and I find myself challenged in trusting a new practitioner. How do I know who would be a good fit for me?

Ask an Angel: December 17, 2015

During the summer and fall, I try to get out for a walk daily if I can. The winter poses a challenge and I am wondering how to implement a workout in my home to keep me in shape over the months when I am stuck indoors.

Ask an Angel: December 10, 2015

I completely overdid it during Thanksgiving. I over ate and felt horrible for days. I want to stay healthy and my doctor has instructed me to stay healthy as well. Any tips to gain self-control?

Ask an Angel: November 19, 2015

Our Ask An Angel correspondent is Arlene Petersen, Life Care Navigation Specialist in the area of senior home care. Q. I recently visited a friend who was babysitting her grandchild. The visit was wonderful, but her grandchild was obviously sick with a cold. How do I handle the upcoming cold and flu season when I …

Ask an Angel: October 22, 2015

I feel like I am very young “inside” my head. My body doesn’t agree! When I am out and about people treat me like a “senior” and it drives me crazy!

Ask an Angel: October 8, 2015

I am a recent widow. My husband took care of all our finances and paperwork. I am overwhelmed to tackle this because I have been out of touch. How can I begin to understand all he used to take care of?

Ask an Angel: September 24, 2015

I lost my husband six months ago, and I feel lost and detached from life. My friends invite me to do things, but I don’t have any interest in participating in anything. I am busy with my children, but am so empty inside. How can I move on without bringing those around me down?

Ask an Angel: September 10, 2015

I have been advised to put a power of attorney in place. I have also heard the term “advance directive.” Are these the same?

Ask an Angel: August 27, 2015

My husband and I recently moved to the area and shortly after, he passed away unexpectedly. Now, I feel lost and alone and just don’t have direction. I want to get involved in life, but I just don’t know how. What can put me back into life?

Ask an Angel: August 13, 2015

I have started stopping by my mother’s house to make sure she is eating properly. I prepare meals for her for the week and leave them for her to warm up. Unfortunately, I find much of the food uneaten.

Ask an Angel: July 30, 2015

My father is on several medications. How can I make sure any new prescriptions work properly with his current medications?

Ask an Angel: July 16, 2015

My husband and I need to get our legal matters in order. We know we have to get a power of attorney in place for each of us. I’ve heard there are two kinds: one for our finances and one for our health. What is the difference?

Ask an Angel: July 2, 2015

My neighbor received a phone call from her grandson and it turned out to be a scam phone call. She couldn’t hear the caller very well, so she wound up hanging up. I can only imagine what the outcome could have been. What can we do to prevent being scammed?

Ask an Angel: June 18, 2015

I’ve fallen for the first time recently and it really scared me. Since this happened to me, my friends have told me to expect it to happen again. Is this true or am I just being too worried?

Ask an Angel: June 4, 2015

It’s not safe for my mom to live alone any longer. I am her primary caregiver and I have seen her change over the past few months, with numerous falls in her home. I am considering assisted living for her, but don’t know where to begin. What should I be looking for?